How to know if you¡¯re dating a liar
Every time when you meet new guy through the internet or a club it¡¯s hard to tell who they really are. Unless met through your friends or a group trip, you can fall into something unreal.
There are two types of liars, one who say too much and other who say not enough. The first group usually show off with their abilities, money or work. If they paid for a beginner race car lesson they tell they¡¯re already nascar drivers. If they wet their leg in the ocean they will tell they were swimming with sharks. Whatever they do, they will present themselves as heroes. The second group are those who hide the truth.
They change subject every time you ask about their personal life, marital status or if they have committed any crime. It¡¯s not easy to avoid liars or turn one into positive-minded and honest. If you suspect him of telling a lie, ask him what are the things he likes in people. Then you tell about your own. Let him know that the most important thing is honesty. When he is evading your question, don¡¯t let him change the subject too easily. Say that this must be very interesting and you would really like to know the story. You can comfort him with telling ¡®you can tell me anything¡¯. If you¡¯re sure that he is lying or is much stressed of your insisting leave it. You already know there¡¯s something wrong and you don¡¯t want to hear ¡®I have murdered someone yesterday¡¯ to become another witness. Watch his behavior. If he is nervous, looking elsewhere, rapidly drinking or grabbing food probably he still want to change the topic because his glass is empty or need to walk to the toilet.
Don¡¯t get mad about little lies, if he was late and seems to be very sorry don¡¯t punish him. You know it¡¯s easy to get late and sometimes we lie that we waiting so long for a bus when in fact we had to finish that make-up. If you have found out he is a liar when you meet his brother on the street or his friends who say totally different story it might be not worth it. If you don¡¯t want to be with a liar just find another guy. Remember, you can never change a liar. You can find a way to know the truth but that will never be revealed by your man directly.
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