How to choose a wife
This one is too tall. This one can¡¯t cook. This one is not pretty, that one is too old. Making couples was way easier years ago. All you had to do is to sit comfortably on a ball while your father will introduce to you your wife material. And no one of them will refuse.
Today it¡¯s quite hard. Not only you need to fall in love but she needs to accept you! And after you¡¯re happily dating one of them how do you know she will be a good wife?
When you want more serious relationship try to find out if your girlfriend ¡®has it¡¯. Check if she¡¯s smart, if she knows how to use things. Check if she does not start to cry when left alone locked in a house. Can she drive? Can she cook? Can she iron? The best way is to spend a holiday with her with living together. How is she going to survive in a big kitchen. You need to know your needs but don¡¯t treat your girlfriend or fiancee as your mom. She doesn¡¯t need to do everything your mom did for you. Just find out if you two can cooperate together in a house. How she reacts to things? Or maybe she wants to be involved in too much? Cleaning even your car wheels or making a perfect order on your screwdrivers shelves? Don¡¯t get too stressed, you can just say you don¡¯t want her to touch that. If she¡¯s okay then why you shouldn¡¯t be? Talk to her as much as you can, see how you two handle when you persuade each others ¡®bad¡¯ ideas or reveal your likes and dislikes about yourselves. If there is that tiny thing you don¡¯t like about her, let her know, otherwise it may rive you crazy after one year of marriage. Try to sort things out, talk about sex, kids or bad habits. You can mention your bad experiences or mistakes in the past. Inspire each other with bright ideas and when you both agree you can plan ahead.
Meet each others family. Talk about home pets, if you both like idea o having a dog etc. It¡¯s good to find differences and little problems and practice to solve them.
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