How to choose a husband
This one is too tall. This one can¡¯t fix things. This one is not handsome, that one is too old. Making couples was way easier years ago. All you had to do is to sit comfortably on a ball while your father will introduce to you your future husband.
Today it¡¯s quite hard. Not only you need to fall in love but he needs to accept you! And after you¡¯re happily dating one of them how do you know he will be a good husband?
When you want more serious relationship try to find out if your boyfriend ¡®has it¡¯. Check if he¡¯s smart, if he knows how to use things. Check if he does not start to cry when left alone locked in a house. Can he drive? Can he cook? Can he repair a computer? The best way is to spend a holiday with him with living together. How is he going to survive in a big house? You need to know your needs but don¡¯t treat your boyfriend or fianc¨¦ as your dad. He doesn¡¯t need to do everything your father did for you. Just find out if you two can cooperate together in a house. How he reacts to things? Or maybe he wants to be involved in too much? Sticking his screwdriver even in your laptop or drying his socks in your living room? Don¡¯t get too stressed, you can just say you don¡¯t want him to do that. Talk to him as much as you can, see how you two handle when you persuade each others ¡®bad¡¯ ideas or reveal your likes and dislikes about yourselves. If there is that tiny thing you don¡¯t like about him, let him know, otherwise it may drive you crazy after one year of marriage. Try to sort things out, talk about sex, kids or bad habits. You can mention your bad experiences or mistakes in the past. Inspire each other with bright ideas and when you both agree you can plan ahead.
Meet each others family. Talk about home pets, if you both like idea o having a dog etc. It¡¯s good to find differences and little problems and practice to solve them.
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